request for kindness to abuse survivors (+/-) Show more
here's my request to you if you want to help not recreating traumatic triggers for survivors accidentally!
don't tell a person, when they ask you to back off, why it was okay that you said what you said. just don't! even if you want to clarify. don't
that is, don't tell a person, when they say you're hurting them, that you didn't mean it! that's just how you are
cause for me that's how i got kept in a dark place for decades. its the thousandth cut