mini gender rant/subtoot
however, I feel very little body dysphoria and I have no plans to pursue any sort of medical transition. so to call myself trans feels disingenuous. I can easily pass as cis if I want to. I will never face the kind of discrimination that, say, a trans woman might face. to call myself trans would be to erase the experiences of trans people who actually transition, and their unique hardships
mini gender rant/subtoot
I identify as non-binary because I reject the gender binary, because I refuse to be confined to any one (binary) gender, and because my presentation does not always match my assigned gender.
I wish I didn't feel like I had to have a filter up all the time. I'm always afraid that I'll say something weird and like, lose followers, which is dumb. or accidentally reveal "too much" about myself, whatever that means.
this was supposed to be my filter-less account but it didn't really work out that way. it's hard. i'm trying
@kirby right? most of the ones I've found are transfemme
"The primary defining characteristic of shyness is a largely ego-driven fear of what other people will think of a person's behavior. This results in a person becoming scared of doing or saying what they want to out of fear of negative reactions, being laughed at, humiliated or patronized, criticism or rejection. A shy person may simply opt to avoid social situations instead."
"This commonly occurs in new situations or with unfamiliar people."
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@kirby your loss
@kirby ah, oh well π€·ββοΈ
can i be real a second? / for just a millisecond? / let down my guard and tell the people how i feel a second?
β formerly of witches.town β feels β introverted, kinky, geeky, shy, catperson πΈ β they/them β gender is a hoax β
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