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@ghost i am trying to get a new wheelchair, that is a lot narrower. the fenders will then hold my body in position, without them i couldn't use that small seat size, but it's so amazing. when it's tight like that you can actually steer with your butt, i really hope i can convince my insurance to give me a new chair

@ghost thank you! Yes they are very helpful, they keep my clothes from getting into the spokes and help to keep stuff on my lap. I often have a bag or groceries on my lap and this way they don't fall down so much.
I still somehow manage to get my clothes, especially zippers, into the spokes going clank clank clank πŸ™„ I don't want to imagine how often that would happen without fenders

Also I am currently avoiding too get up because I'm in level 8/10 pain but as soon as I get up to get pain meds I will be in level 9-10/10 pain.
But, if I wait for too long this will happen on its own as well... Can't win

Had time today to take a good selfie with my crappy chair.

Description: A selfie through a mirror. I am a light skinned, medium build white person with short green hair. I am wearing blue trousers, a blue jacket and a blue scarf. I am sitting in a black and white manual wheelchair. I am wearing silver shoes and am taking the picture with a phone that has a golden cover. In the background you can see a medical office's waiting area.

@squirrel that happened to me once, so damn scary :(

@Firstaide i like using them when my hands need some rest, but i don't want them to be completely incapacitated OR freezing to death

@Firstaide they keep warm, and due to the compression may also help a bit with pain. they are firmer & give more stability than regular gloves

@AndyC woudl totally do, unfortunately i'm allergic against everything that contains alcohol :)))) my life is miserable. i do have 2 very soft cats tho

@AndyC haha no not really, but it's ok i don't need you to give me advice, i'm just whining :)

@AndyC wow. i brought away 1 package and bought some food. now i'm in pain and exhausted but it was worth it. i really hate my wheelchair, it's the most uncomfortable thing ever

i'm also in pain but that's kinda normal.
it worries me that lately, i've been using my cane inside a lot.

that means the whole "accessible apartment" thing is kind of getting urgent with no solution in sight 😐

food 

today i went Outside and i got a lot of food that isn't poison. it was very expensive but for the first time in days my stomach is HAPPY. so, starvation has been averted once more!

@AndyC accomplished. very good adulting today. and you?

lian boosted

If you want to write 1 thing about #autistic people down in your personal social rulebook, let it be this:

Never lecture us on how to communicate.
Or perform according to non-autistic social norms in general.

Not without being asked to or having at least asked yourself for our consent, when you feel the need to explain things.

Instead, learn about how many autistic people communicate and why and what it means to us. Learn about the violence this ableist society uses to make us look like non-autistic people.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't tell us, if we hurt you. That's always okay. Just don't lecture us on communication stuff.

#actuallyautistic

@Firstaide ugh i hate that when you want to rest limbs and they just FREEZE. it's s hard to keep them warm

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