Health/financial/family things
But he's losing it much earlier than expected so he's not doing well in recovery right now. My grandmother finally got put in a nursing home this weekend which is a huge relief to me and several other family members.
Now if they can keep her there.
And I have to figure out how to borrow a truck or something to get my things from my grandparents' house now. And I haven't seen them for almost 2 years now since my coming out got me kicked out of family events.