Now that I've had GRS I struggle sometimes because a lot of trans to trans validation that isn't truscum stuff is specifically targeted at bolstering people without bottom dysphoria or who have their original birth genitals. And I totally get why that is. And also it's lonely and difficult at times because the assumption is that I get my validation from the transphobic scripts in movies or truscum scripts and.. I don't.

So sometimes I run into the kind of the opposite problem of triscumminess where I feel Not Trans Enough because I got GRS and am too normative now.