In the 21st Century as we are, can we not expunge sir and ma'am from the English language? I regard these supposed courtesy particles as distinctly discourteous
@PrinceFlamingo I'm sure there are many acceptable gender free alternatives (friend, e.g.). Thai language has the gender free particle kun, but when they speak English, I get "sirred"
@PrinceFlamingo @acrata i propose "matey".