One thing I do know: white, middle class queers who move to coastal cities from the Midwest will always and forever lecture you on gentrification, like they aren't gentrification
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"This part of town used to be queer until --"
It used to be black and latinx shut the fuck up
They will lecture you on gentrification, and they will not hire black or brown people at their nonprofit. Because they definitely have hiring power at some shitty nonprofit. It has "community" in the name but it's run by all white people who grew up a thousand miles away.