trying to decide what my word should be for 2018

each year i chose a word to work me/work with and on the first pull 3 cards as guiding forces, tools, lessons insights, comforts/challenges

word chosen: become
three cards 2016: death/ 4 of bottles/5 of fairies (Collective Tarot)

word chosen: tender
three cards 2017: traveller of branches/ace of knives/7 of cups (Slow Holler)

word i chose: ??
cards pulled 2018: ?? (??)