@pan I'm a massive perv so I've got plenty of lewd art and every time I go to get a new piece, even from artists I've worked with several times already, I write a big whole blurb of what I want and sit there flustered trying to word things properly and I'm always saying stuff like "I hope this is okay" in them haha
@pan yeah they are usually used to getting lewd requests and I usually only commissions ones who I know are comfortable with stuff I might wanna include, like bondage-y stuff
they probably think I'm a dork with how my entire message is me asking if it's fine + apologizing in advance if anything is unclear, etc :v