really blows when you find out (probably) that someone you used to wanna be good friends with just decided one day that you're not worth acknowledging even more and probably has you muted or blocked or something so you can't even ask why

like...what do you do then? how do you even know what you _did_? "oh I don't have to tell you anything and you're abusing me just by asking" well fuck you if that's how you think