depression and suicide mention
I used to be scared of the pain of death and of the issues I would cause others. Now that I lost something I anchored to so hard, and now that I dont have the motivation I had pre covid to strive for a better life, I really feel like the pain of dying doesnt outweigh the constant emotional pain I feel every day. Especially from seeing that persons account. I just cant.... deal with it. I want to end it. Permanently.
"Marginalized people" continue to not be a monolith, and you can't use our existence as an aggregate to "decide" what we need just because you listened to some marginalized people even while others disagreed.
When people say to listen to marginalized people and not talk over them, that includes not declaring a "winner" just because you heard one voice more than another. That's still speaking for us, and it's still throwing your privilege around.
Our needs and experiences are not uniform and sometimes things that help some of us hurt others.
Just a dude (he/him) trying to be a happy fae in an indifferent universe.