I got it now.
Private: only local followers can see it and it shows up in their TL.
Unlisted: local AND remote followers see it and it shows up in their TL AND people who visit your profile can see it. (tested that one with another account right now) but not on public TLs or # searches
Public: everyone can see it and it shows up on all followers TL AND on all public TLs and # searches
oh and tea, please! very queer and autistic. disability. fibre. they-pronouns.
not much tech-related tooting but feelings and everything.
I like tea but: http://ko-fi.com/A674QB4