body shape stuff, dysphoria trigger - 

I do love every time I think up something slightly "showy" that would be my style and go to find it, I get told in essence 'you are 6" over the size where society thinks you should wear this, why not this tent that leaves no detail of your shape visible instead?'

And like... I'm just TALL. I can't imagine how fucked this would be if I was also stocky.

But it really sucks to get really excited to see myself in something then learn it's literally not possible with bespoke stuff. Literally. Not. Possible.

body shape stuff, dysphoria trigger - 

s/with/without. Whatever people are already liking this and I'm not redrafting it.

I'm frustrated and want to bite several corporate entities at once and argh. :)

body shape stuff, dysphoria trigger - 

@trysdyn Ugh, mood. :/ There’s a reason my standard girlmode look is just t-shirt, cute shirt, and sneakers. I’ve looked, and I’m pretty sure cute shoes just *do not exist* in my size.

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