caps, relationships, flirting, poly ment. 

oh my god there was this really cute guy that had lots of Julian Devorak energy at the bar I went to last night and I got his instagram and friended him on fb today and just asked him if he'd like to get coffee.

WHAT IS MY LIFE???

This is pretty out of character for me but I think he's really cute and I wanna give it a try? I don't even really know where we'd go from here and how I'd explain I'm poly and ahhhhhhhhhhhh.

caps, relationships, flirting, poly ment. 

omg omg omG OMG??? HE SAID YES????

Hammering out a potential meeting place. Ahhh omg he thinks I'm pretty cool too.

Poly and Dating, Advice plz 

So we're meeting for dessert and coffee Sunday evening. I don't know if he's considering it a "date" and I haven't told him about being poly or being married and ahhhh how do I bring it up???

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Poly and Dating, Advice plz 

just told him.

"Okay deeeeep breaths lemme see if I can say this without sounding nuts. I know this isn't officially a "date" but I wanted to put my cards on the table and say that I'm married and polyamorous, but I really think you're cute and charming and I want to get to know you if you'd let me?

I understand if that's a deal breaker or if you don't want to meet, but as they say... nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?"

....... he's been typing and deleting

Poly and Dating, Happy 

Woo! Long story short I've got a date on Sunday and we're gonna take things slow. I might just end up with a friend, but I'm definitely open to this. We're bonding over art and mutual awkwardness.

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