Tarale @Tarale@computerfairi.es

Like, that is never what I mean. I don't mean "I'm not having any fun so you're not allowed to have any fun". I don't mean "please get rid of your VR equipment and all your toys and live a joyless existence from here on because I'm a hateful bitch"

It is a little frustrating that I've spent all of today cooking or cleaning, and my husband is fucking around in VR, and if I mention it to him he'll be "I GUESS I'M NEVER ALLOWED TO HAVE FUN THEN"

LOOK, PRESSURE COOKER
FUCK YOU AND YOUR "EVERYTHING'S OK" ALARM
EVERY TIME YOU BEEP FOR NO REASON
I JUST ABOUT SHIT MYSELF

There's this dude that responds to all of my food tweets with passive aggressive vegan commentary and I am so close to just blocking him

So, anarchism seems pretty rad

Drew some ridiculously complicated shit. I still like Homestuck.

Housework sucks.

Off to the psychologist today to get a tune-up on the crazy

It's nice to catch up with Steven Universe after so long. Will have to watch this wedding thingy tomorrow though.

OK, not entirely "no reason". Procreate have released new tools to do symmetry, and I wanted to play with them, and She-Ra is what happened when I played with them.

But it wasn't really done with, like, purpose, or deliberateness.

Oh yeah, I drew a She-Ra. It's part of a symmetry thingy because no reason really.

The baby/toddler is JUST SO HAPPY when you get him a yoghurt pouch.

I am not sure I wanted my husband to follow me on THIS PARTICULAR MASTODON INSTANCE

@posty no

poo bum wee

bleh

WHY DON'T BABIES SLEEP?????

But yeah, what was I saying before I got all off topic?

Oh yeah.

Exercise is good.

Also, kind of related, some people then harp on about how new mums are being lazy and having a 'holiday' at home and should get back to work ASAP

AHHAHA

so they're isolated, eating poorly or not at all, not sleeping, and not exercising, and under fire for being a drain on society, and we wonder why they're depressed

I always wonder how much better PPD would be if there was more support for new mothers in general.

Look after the baby and let a new mum go for a walk.

Bring them something nutritious to eat… preferably something they need to do NO PREP to eat (in the early weeks especially). A sandwich is great.

Look after the baby in the middle of the night so they can catch just a little more sleep.

But we don't take care of new mums basic needs enough. We leave them at home alone while everyone moves on.