Folks, politely; when I need help with how to use mastodon, I'll ask. When I need someone to edit my posts, I'll ask. Actually I won't do either of them because I'd rather lose my IPod first. But you get the point.

Unsolicited advice and corrections are not "just helping out" like you think they are, and as a woman I can assure you they're TYPICALLY perceived, by me, as coded forms of sexist shit. If you don't have a clue what I'm talking about search up the term "negging."

Either way, don't