@skelltan@hellsite.site @amateurwitch it's probably a cliché at this point but the key steps are to be yourself and not be trying for a relationship, in my experience. like. it just sorta happens naturally, with some friends, that you start dating? at least, that's how it's been for me

and then you get introduced to their entire polycule all at once and everything is chaos for a while and by the time it's all settled down there's a decent chance you're dating at least one of them too