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@FuchsiaShock it's an exceedingly common autistic trait. personally i rarely talk about Anything without being prompted, unless it's like. a special interest
the other thing here that might be related is that smalltalk type stuff is often uncomfortable to talk about? i don't presently know how to explain how or why but it's definitely the least appetising part of a conversation in my experience
@Lady this is just the difference between unverified opinion and proven fact
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@BestGirlGrace hmmmm....i might know someone who could help you with that. potentially even more than one someone
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@BestGirlGrace well....yeah. i kinda figured that was a given. but it's rough when that puts a limit on one's ability to be Fashionable about it, ye ken
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@BestGirlGrace it's a much less relevant question if you have an ally who can manage this sort of thing, but then you run back into the initial problem of "what if they're not there at the time" so i confess myself devoid of actual solutions here
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@BestGirlGrace normally i'd say that's what glamers are for but....i'm not sure how manageable that is for non-fae
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@BestGirlGrace "what if i have to blend in with a crowd" is just a horror story, actually,
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@idesofmerch i've only ever heard the tmbg cover of this song
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own