re: Selfies
@yeenbean *coos and nuzzles yr paw*
re: Selfies
@yeenbean well, we won't stand for this! *sits down*
re: Selfies
@yeenbean it's already over 100%, dear, don't push it
re: Selfies
@yeenbean extremely cute 12/7
@haskal holy shit magic
@Thuslyandfurthermore you say that as though we've ever stopped giggling, dancing, & singing in our life. fricken do it
@Thuslyandfurthermore *dialing up the gay even more*
@bryceyoungquist fedi is a bunch of horny bottoms
@hierarchon absoh*ckinlutely, yeah
Thanksgiving PSA
And to be clear the other side is bad too
I've had so many partners & friends not invite me to things bc they've determined the environment isn't one I'd like
But only I know that
You can invite us to things, you don't have to exclude us to be respectful
Just keep us informed
Thanksgiving PSA
If someone trans or even cis queer invites me somewhere I assume that place is safe for me
If I know better it's socially difficult for me to explain my concerns
Be upfront; let us decide our own safety needs and make it easy for us to make a decision based on them
Thanksgiving PSA
Please don't invite trans folks to your trans unfriendly family spaces without warning
Please don't invite any marginalized folks into spaces unfriendly to them without telling them that is the case
This holds for anytime of year to be honest, but especially today where folks invite us to spaces bc we don't have family... But to be blunt being around your trans missic family isn't better than being near ours and def not better than being alone
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own