okay i cant find the post so im just going to re-write it. trans masc pol
I appreciate all the rallying behind trans masc people today but i want to make something abundantly clear
i dont need people to "not all men" for me. i internalized this before i transitioned, but i have always understood jabs at men not meaning that all men do [thing] but simply that 99% of people who do [thing] are men. it does not offend me. i really dont care. most of the time, i agree.
and instead of getting mad at random people for venting about men, i would much rather we put our energy into reshaping trans spaces that are so hostile to masc folks. say cis men when you mean cis men. dont say that T is poison. dont conflate "trans" with "trans woman." dont create dichotomies in the trans community to exclude trans masc people. i could go on and on you get my point.
we're in this together, and everything i do is to try to bring us together without pretending we're the same. we can acknowledge our different needs and experiences without excluding eachother.
@junebug Honestly, given what I know about him, he definitely didn't know he was doing that, but that almost makes it more important in terms of trans representation, like, this old British dude just also came up with the idea that people can be trans and stuck it in his book and was like "This is just how things are"
important quote from article, intersectionality, black trans men, feel free to boost
"[T]rans men’s relationship to gender cannot be understood by adding the privilege of maleness to the oppression of transness; the interaction between these axes substantively transforms both such that it generates an experience qualitatively different from either alone.
This qualitative difference is particularly salient for Black trans men and transmasculine people, whose experiences at the intersection of race, gender, and trans status are especially ill-captured by a sex-class approach. The assumption that masculinity necessarily means freedom from gender oppression ignores how race/ism is always gendered, and in particular how Black masculine people are gendered as inherently dangerous (and targeted for anti-Black violence on the basis of that “danger”)."
anti-indigenous racism, twilight, climate change, donation request
With Midnight Sun coming out, I’d like to let people know that the Quiluete tribe, featured in the books, are struggling a lot right now as climate change and tsunami risk puts their cultural heritage at risk even as an appropriated and bastardized version of their beliefs will soon be hitting shelves everywhere.
If you can, please read more about the issue here and consider donating: https://mthg.org/
a piping hot take on transmasc support
"we support trans mascs!" really just comes across as "please don't forget we support you too haha" when like. we wouldn't be out here forgetting if non transmasc people actually engaged with us on issues or took accountability for when their behavior hurts as lmao
Fun sword fact: all the swords you see in "serious" (tone-wise) fantasy like Game of Thrones are much more of a modern aesthetic than a medieval one. Medieval aesthetic would be considered downright gaudy by today's standards.
Dyes were expensive and therefore a sign of wealth, so no nobleman would be caught dead with an undecorated black scabbard or an unengraved, un-inlayed blade as long as he could afford to dye his scabbard bright colors and inlay gold or silver into his sword. The image is an example of what might be more typical for a reasonably wealthy nobleman around the time of the Battle of Agincourt.
@sunsetmoth gu slepe
@witchfynder_finder @velexiraptor ah, [cw: lewd],
Travelling back in time to talk to my younger self.
Them: So what's the internet like?
Me: So you know those cool internet programs you use to hang out with people and stuff?
Them: Yeah they're awesome
Me: They will all become bloated and die under the weight of their own monetization.
Them: :C
Me: This will happen to everything you enjoy, except for tits. Those still rock. Later nerd!
@BalooUriza @monorail it really do be that way sometimes
@BalooUriza @monorail perks of knowing maybe 2 ppl who aren't furries
@dankwraith trans men
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own