Lesbian discourse, I think?
I have no idea what's going on with Discourse™ right now, but to my drunk, sleep deprived brain, a lot of it comes across as a direct attack on people like me. Like, am I not a lesbian because I'm dating a non-binary person? Are they not a lesbian because they're non-binary? Or are they not a lesbian because they're dating a trans woman? Where's that line, exactly?
I'm attracted primarily to women and non-binary people. I have some attraction to men, but the bar for trusting them enough to date them is pretty fucking high. So I call myself a lesbian even though bisexual might be technically more accurate, but it doesn't convey the truth as much as lesbian. So what, am I not allowed to call myself that?
tiny BDSM safeword PSA to dominants
did you know, sometimes the domme needs to say the safeword? did you know, as a domme, you're allowed to use the safeword? did you know that it's important for you to feel safe and have a good time too?
you're allowed to stop the scene if things are going in a direction that makes you scared or uncomfortable. as a domme you also have limits, and your goal shouldn't be please the submissive to the exclusion of your own pleasure or comfort.
i'm really not sure what i intended with this, but i definitely didn't get good sapphic content which is Extremely rood i couldn't have made myself any clearer than this
What a delightful, affirming video!
"It's (NOT) Just a Phase - The Experiences on Nonbinary Folks 30-70 Years of Age"
I'm forty *cough* years myself and I've known I wasn't entirely male or entirely female since my teens. It feels so wonderful to be myself again instead of trying to fit myself in a box for the benefit of everyone around me.
Maybe it is a phase for you, maybe it's not. But there's nothing wrong with being NB as long as it makes sense for you. And that may be your entire life.
Bee safety information, boosts appreciated
European Honey bee (most common bees found in North America too) will bump into you before they sting you as a warning that they feel threatened. If a bee bumps into you just back away from the plant you're probably near or stop moving until the bee moves on.
Also if you know you're not allergic to them and you get stung the bee DOES NOT have to die, and if you give it a little time, usually 5-10 seconds, the bee will work itself out and fly off and leave you both safe, and you won't have a stinger stuck in your skin!
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own