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other people using a label you use, does not affect you. labels are personal, and only personal. there is no such thing as a universal shared experience.

Lesbian discourse, I think? 

I have no idea what's going on with Discourse™ right now, but to my drunk, sleep deprived brain, a lot of it comes across as a direct attack on people like me. Like, am I not a lesbian because I'm dating a non-binary person? Are they not a lesbian because they're non-binary? Or are they not a lesbian because they're dating a trans woman? Where's that line, exactly?

I'm attracted primarily to women and non-binary people. I have some attraction to men, but the bar for trusting them enough to date them is pretty fucking high. So I call myself a lesbian even though bisexual might be technically more accurate, but it doesn't convey the truth as much as lesbian. So what, am I not allowed to call myself that?

tiny BDSM safeword PSA to dominants 

did you know, sometimes the domme needs to say the safeword? did you know, as a domme, you're allowed to use the safeword? did you know that it's important for you to feel safe and have a good time too?

you're allowed to stop the scene if things are going in a direction that makes you scared or uncomfortable. as a domme you also have limits, and your goal shouldn't be please the submissive to the exclusion of your own pleasure or comfort.

Broke: ☑️ I don't want to see or be seen by straight people

Woke: ☑️ I don't want to see or be seen by cishets

Bespoke: ☑️ I don't want to see or be seen by capitalism

i'm really not sure what i intended with this, but i definitely didn't get good sapphic content which is Extremely rood i couldn't have made myself any clearer than this

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trans people being happy and laughing unreservedly

leading a pagan uprising to reclaim the entire winter holiday season from any puritanical taint, get in lads

the worst part about being a lesbian? definitely the fact that we look good all the time no matter what. what's a gay gotta Do when we wanna manifest as an actual pile of garbage

giving up the aspects of your pre-trans identity that no longer fit as an offering to the fae is self-care

fallen london, a bit body horror 

!!! finally did it! and it won't be doable next year. cut it a bit close ther

What a delightful, affirming video!

"It's (NOT) Just a Phase - The Experiences on Nonbinary Folks 30-70 Years of Age"

youtu.be/Bo2FgrTfubw

I'm forty *cough* years myself and I've known I wasn't entirely male or entirely female since my teens. It feels so wonderful to be myself again instead of trying to fit myself in a box for the benefit of everyone around me.

Maybe it is a phase for you, maybe it's not. But there's nothing wrong with being NB as long as it makes sense for you. And that may be your entire life.

Bee safety information, boosts appreciated 

European Honey bee (most common bees found in North America too) will bump into you before they sting you as a warning that they feel threatened. If a bee bumps into you just back away from the plant you're probably near or stop moving until the bee moves on.

Also if you know you're not allergic to them and you get stung the bee DOES NOT have to die, and if you give it a little time, usually 5-10 seconds, the bee will work itself out and fly off and leave you both safe, and you won't have a stinger stuck in your skin!

what's heavier, a pound of water or a pound of butane? 

well, you see, butane is lighter fluid

hey we're out of these "you will find happiness with a new love" cookies, open the deep space nine barrel.

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