*looks at a straight couple* so which of you is the holly glaceon and which of you is the other holly glaceon
when cis women criticize individual trans women for taking up space, speaking our minds, or otherwise transgressing conventional femininity, then link it to our asserted 'male socialization,' the implication is: cis women can't do those things
I come bearing the radical, feminist idea that cis women can and do do those things, actually, and it is in fact easier than if you do them while being censured by transmisogyny.
if you are genuinely envious of a trans woman's self-command, I invite you to emulate her in your pursuit of women's liberation. we can all raise each other up or we can splinter apart into miserable hopeless cells of repressive isolation; I know which one I'd rather do!
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own