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the truest art is art that cannot be experienced by words or pictures or that can be bought or sold and transplanted into a gallery or house to collect dust. art that defies description and enclosure, art that must be experienced first-hand and digested on-the-spot does not compare to art that can be brought home and hung above the mantlepiece to be viewed at leisure. even art that is captured and reproduced for such a purpose does not compare to the original product

Friend: *takes weeks or even months to respond to something* I'm SO SORRY for the delay!

Me: *delighted to be on the other end of this for once* It's completely fine, take as long as you need, take forever, we will always be cool.

Life is hard, people are busy, responding to messages takes spell slots. I am never upset if someone is late to respond to something or cannot respond at all.

It happens! In fact, it happens to me a *lot*.

ghost programmers use boo-lean logic

Fool/foolish. I'm serious. That comes from jesters, people who did ridiculous things on purpose. Playing the fool is doing something a jester would do, except your not trying to be funny.

The only way that asexuality is ever going to be accessible to the most marginalized in our community is if we stop trying to define the crap out of it and just accept the fact that different people are going to experience it in different ways and that it's okay.

at the most pure good and sapphic coffee shop rn

we're seeing shenanigans levels at about 81%

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a disability communications technique care of the tumblrs https://findingfeather.tumblr.com/post/188594514422/of-course-like-any-social-tip-this-doesnt-always

tl;dr: phrasing required accommodations as a statement of fact and not a request - e.g. going from "I cannot make phone calls for disability reasons, could we continue via email?" to "I cannot make phone calls for disability reasons, but I can answer your questions via email." - reduces the odds that abled people try to argue with the accommodations

not to zero, of course, but reduces.

Oh hi, everybody I know.

https://www.comicskingdom.com/shared_comics/ec2d3724-fcfb-4dca-b6bb-cbc59327db72

Haven't used masto in too long, so as a reintroduction:

IM GAY

Oh, today is Intersex Awareness Day. Neat. Well, uh, just to make y'all aware, I was born intersex and forced to undergo surgical correction, for cosmetic reasons, at age 10 that will prevent me from ever having bottom surgery due to extensive scarring, and also left me with a significant fear of surgery. No, I'm not still bitter.