[text descript. continued
The reason I say that is because the term narcissist is really only ever used to explain toxic actions or traits. It’s not a diagnosis, so to me it doesn’t seem right to label people with personality disorders with what is essentially a slur in the psychiatric community. Rather, I would say that they have whatever diagnosis they have."] s/2
[text descript. screenshots of comment friend Amy Gardner said on facebook about this
"I tend to use terms like narcissist not just if they’re diagnosed, but if they’re diagnosed AND offenders or some kind of abuse and manipulate the situation in a way that they refuse to get help. Cluster B personality disorders are REALLY hard and there shouldn’t be any stigma in getting help."] s/1
[text description continued on ana's comment:
"In my experience it can be crippling and insidious. But I can also see how personally it’s crippling for sufferers similar to social issues in ADHD."] n/2
[text description. comment friend Ana María Pino said on facebook
"All for awareness of NPD. Having NPD in the family is painful and difficult at least for myself, and my therapist with same background reported the same. I’m all for awareness. I believe people can change. But as someone who’s been gaslit and all the other mind games, I just want more awareness. It’s like being a prisoner and finally someone pulls down these walls keeping you prisoner ...and its dizzying." n/1
[text description: screenshot of comment friend RJ Rahman said about this on fb:
"i've been around abusive people my entire life. i've been hurt emotionally and physically multiple times. but i still don't have the right to call my abusers sociopaths or narcissists because a) i could be fucking wrong and b) it's not fair to those with antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder who are trying to not be abusive, to lump actual abusive people with them"]
like, sociopath is also an outdated as fuck term and it's literally like why the fuck are yall armchair diagnosing folks over the internet lol
just call abuse fucking abuse and FUCKING STOP dragging atypical people under the bus for self righteous bullshit i get that people have been abused by actual narcissists but abuse is NOT inherent w cluster b folks. people really need to fucking stop this fucking bullshit
mild body horror??
where do we go to get like,
"A shifting black pillar dominates the room, writhing and contorting as though in agony. As you approach, you see glinting beaks and mad eyes and, here or there, the shape of a wing.
It's a ten-mile-high tower of conjoined crows, fused together at some skeletal level and draped over a vast beaked totem. There must be millions of birds here, tormented by their unity."
but more lesbian
HIV, PrEP news
This is actually from June, but I don’t feel like this made the rounds.
Apparently all non-grandfathered insurance plans must cover PrEP with $0 patient cost sharing by 2021 plan years. This means no copays, no co-insurance, deductible waived.
It’s preventative medicine and honestly, this is overdue
https://www.healthaffairs.org/do/10.1377/hblog20190613.596797/full/
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own