Because it's a skill that's missing in our society, here's how to apologize.
1) Acknowledge harm. "I f'd up." 2) State what you did that was wrong, in a way that shows you understand the harm done.
3) Express regret
4) Say what you're going to change to not cause this harm again
5) Listen.
Don't ask the hurt person for *anything.* It's up to them to accept or not, if they choose.
Don't be clever. Be plain & simple.
@witchfynder_finder @ItsMorgan @FirstProgenitor *scream* this is my biggest pet peeve with gritty historical shows. you have all these raggedy ass dirty hairy men, children and old people but every woman between the ages of 14 and 55 is perfectly clean, hairless, with neat eyebrows and Obvious makeup. it's like the showrunners are taking a hammer to their viewers suspense of disbelief lmao
tech, LGBTphobie
Cloudflare propose depuis le 1er avril (pas une blague) un service de DNS «family-friendly» qui bloque des sites de soutien LGBT, et illustre l’article avec des dessins le dessin d’un couple de femmes.
re: kink, corruption //
I feel like we (broadly, the sex-positive) have gotten to a point where a demon seducing someone into a life of hedonistic debauchery hardly counts as "corruption" any more, and to get that equivalent of that old fantasy you'd have to tell a story about someone put through mindbreak to the point where they tremble in rapturous ecstasy from singing hymns in the choir, and want nothing more in life than to bake cookies for charity fundraisers.
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own