My family is doing this thing where they send me a panicked, cryptic message about someone/something I love, then don't respond to any follow up questions online because they want me to call them.

Over the past 3 days, I've requested twice that they message me back. But they don't like it when I'm setting boundaries. They want me to call them.

I am over it.

If you say you love me, then treat me like I'm not allowed emotions or preferences or boundaries, you don't love me!