I've gotten attached to a lot of messy cis people who cause problems for no reason. Then I'm the crazy one because I have normal human reactions to the situations they create. If I try to walk away, I'm being difficult. Cis people are an absolute trip.
I had a cishet ex call me that.
He wound up marrying the next one he dated, having a kid, and divorcing them before he hit twenty three.
Not to gloat, but I'm at least not fucked up as all that drama.