It sucks that my family lies about important things to get my attention, but at least they're really bad at it.
Like my sister getting married...in a month...but the date isn't set yet...and it wasn't mentioned to who...ok. That sounds real.
A few weeks before that, I was messaged about my cat being sick with literally no details provided. For all I know they could have been lying about that too. I love my shitty gaslighting family.
And before that, during Christmas break...being contacted by my sister about my mom being hospitalized, no details on with what, no messages, then a week later my mom is abruptly fine and nobody has any information on what was going on. If I sound paranoid it's because of shit like this. Absolute garbage people.
The best part is, the lies started once I got a good job. When I was literally dumpster diving for food, nobody gave a shit about bothering me.
My ex didn't give a shit about paying me money they owed me until 2 years later, when I had a high-paying apprenticeship. They didn't really care when I was homeless though. No wonder I stayed in that relationship, since they're the same as my garbage family.
Then they wonder why I avoid the hell out of them.
Idk maybe because I don't want to get involved in miserable amounts of unnecessary and absurd drama