“white feminism did not change the gendered distribution of labor, it merely outsourced it to black women. Paraphrasing this claim, I argue that when gays and lesbians adopted a gender normative model of homosexuality, they outsourced the deviance status to gender variant individuals” (Katri, 2017) damning tbh
anti-discrimination law w/r/t transness as it's currently pursued threatens to outsource "deviance" once more, to non-passing trans folks, or trans folks without stable employment, or trans PoC, or to GNC people who don't ID as trans, or to non-binary people, or to trans people who can't or don't want to medically transition in one or more ways
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Shoutout to my girl @melissasage for helping getting this hot dad bod hibernation ready
Weight
Been making some sick gainz this #fatboyfall
#5yrsago Ferguson grand jury: no indictment for officer who killed unarmed black teen https://boingboing.net/2014/11/24/ferguson-grand-jury-decides-no.html
meta? not really a subtoot, but an earnest fyi
You can upload an avi before you start following people. You can toot before you start following people. This isnt twitter where if you're not following and followed you're completely isolated. The moment you create an account you're already in a posting community.
animal death
Let's be real, Elon electrocuting an elephant in front of a big audience would be right in line with all of his past behaviors at this point.
Frustrated that Elon Musk genuinely is in the Marvel cinematic universe, as a heavily fictionalized "world's greatest living inventor"
But if you actually do walk away and do your own thing without them, they have to chase after you to make you feel bad, ruin whatever you're doing, and return things to the status quo.
It makes them feel weak and desperate, and they hate that.
Maybe they'll try to use those feelings of inferiority to try to guilt and neg you into coming back.
Maybe they'll talk about how both sides are wrong (but how you're more wrong for going away so you must definitely come back).
If you say something like, "I can't leave because [horrible circumstances]," then they can play the game of scolding you for getting yourself into horrible circumstances you actually have very little to no control over.
That makes them feel smug and vindicated.
They can claim you're just whining about stuff they can personally blame you for, which not only takes the heat off them, but makes them feel superior to you for not being such a whiner and a loser.
Trans, guy of center, well over 18.
I'm in tech and it feels weird.