Whether you think queer is a slur or not, please don't call me that.
Not everyone grew up in an environment where that word wasn't used as a bludgeon, not everyone wants to reclaim, and universalising the experiences of marginalised people ends up hurting ones with different experiences.
It's not about queer being too inclusive, it's about the memories that word brings up, the way i flinch when i hear it
thanks