social dynamics/social media
accidentally found out someone had unfollowed and soft blocked me on insta (b/c insta suggested them to me)
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just having such a nice 'return this awkwardness to sender' moment, like i don't need to feel awkward about this if they are trying to disnegage or avoid me they can just do that & its their problem lol and if it's some other thing - i have permission to not care
& i can have grief or frustraton but i don't need to feel awkward or anxious! not my problem
why mastodon is the best site
facebook: you will be deleted for saying "im gay"
tumblr: horny is now illegal
twitter: hornt on main is bad, have a hornt alt
mastodon: hornt on main is valid self expression and is supported, but not at the expense of those who are not hornt and therefore we have content warnings as a default feature.
https://dw-news.dreamwidth.org/38929.html
made a new dreamwidth to link to this account & my tumblr: https://disasterfemme.dreamwidth.org/
logged into my ello for the first time in 3 yers and turns out I posted content over there, weird. https://ello.co/hungrychangeling
tumblr, sextalk
mourning one of the only websites that served my social media, anon, not real life based, many people, learned lots got off lots, looked at lots of cool things needs.
also love the article going around women & nbs & the power of porn gifs. learned so much about feeling imagination, and what i want from sex gifs + sex worker tumblrs & erotic fanfiction
changeling lost somewhere in the woods&lights, tracing out edges&old maps. loving u fierce. holding us close. making up chants w/ permanent scars.