You know what's bullshit? Quitting the game, nearly letting your FC estate lapse, and then coming back months later and demanding it all back when the person who ended up with ownership decides to make the FC into something new and better.

Oh, and then taking issue when people leave!

Bitch, you are lucky as hell the owner was your friend and was so willing to acquiesce to appease you. I would not have been so kind. As it is I'm taking my donated gil and furniture and going home.