family --
I've been on very minimal speaking terms with abusive parents and I wish they would just outright say they're mad at me instead of being passive aggressive. It's my brother's birthday today and biomother is absolutely gushing about him on Facebook when all I got from her on mine was "we hope you had a good birthday" in a DM. It's just irritating that they pretend to do the bare minimum of "nice" to try and manipulate me and I wish they'd just be outright mean.
family --
She only started being "nice" when I moved out and she realized I could cut her off. I wouldn't have had to do this if she hadn't abused me for years so she reaps what she sows I guess. I think she's been trashing me to the rest of the family too and it's frustrating. They always take her side and no one ever listens to me. Oh well, at least my friend found family is better, but I just needed to vent.
