@slooploon thanks for making the post in the first place though, there were some good replies in there that gave me things to add to my list as well! (I don't know if it does anything, but I set this reply to unlisted in the hopes that it would avoid brining more crappy folks in your direction) (also, if you'd like me to back away, as a cis white dude, that's totally okay; people with this description have a history of being untrustworthy and I have no expectations.)