now i know why i put off updating my name on services that persist on legal documents as proof for so long... because it never just works and you get like 30 mails with "hello DEADNAME! we see that you are actually now called differently but we still call you DEADNAME because you followed our instructions which are shit and don't work! we do not apologize for triggering intense dysphoria either because we are shitheads! please follow our instructions that are wrong! goodbye DEADNAME"