@taedryn @gingerrroot I chose several times a year because it was the least frequent available! Definitely not a recurring thing, and that's in the context of being a woman in a sexist society. I do occasionally wonder "wow, would they have treated a man this way?" but I wouldn't call that even a fantasy, more like an irritated hypothetical.
@tinymira @ljwrites @taedryn @gingerrroot Cis people think about it that often?! I figured it was just a handful of times ever... huh!