Gender as a project, like crocheting something large or fixing up a car. Gender as something you spend months building in your garage before you're ready to show it to the world
@wildweasel recently got a game system with a game boy slot but I didn't want to leave it just empty cuz the contacts would be exposed to the air? So I bought a copy of "KLAX" for $3 and just left it in there for months
@mcc somewhere, one of my two 3DS systems has a copy of "Garfield's Fun Fest" in the game card slot, that I barely remember getting let alone why. It doesn't really need to use that slot anymore so why not