queer relationship thoughts (1/2?)
around here there's this myth that queer relationships are somehow implicitly healthier than non-queer ones. yall. look around. we got scads of unhealthy relationships, and not very many good examples for what healthy ones look like. please, please, please don't act like all queer intimate relationships are healthy, appropriate, or non-abusive when examples are all around us.
queer relationship thoughts (2/2)
a lot of us are getting in our first post-self-discovery relationships. a lot of people are doing things that are terrifying and unhealthy. that's understandable, i just want people to stay safe.
also, it's not queerphobic to point out queer relationships that are abusive or toxic. please please please _please_ point out bad examples! and _strive to make your own relationships good ones_.
