I just read that calling someone ableist for saying things like lame and moron is trivialising and babying actually disabled ppl and that they use such language all the time and that its normal my hair stands on end and my nails curl right now
I mean wtf??. Yes I know internalised ableism, I have that too but can’t people just admit it? Like saying it’s usually common but it’s internalised and we try to make it better