@MOKKA like, i feel like thse are valid points, so don't get me wrong I'm not saying I don't believe you or anything, or that you're wrong, i just... I don't really know how to respond to this at all. Sorry :(
I just also don't know where all this has come from. I know "oh i didn't see any of that happen" isn't a defense at all, or even a nullification of your points, but I definitely would appreciate any links you could toss my way so I could read up on this because this is news to me