PSA for friends: Personal boundaries, touch
I find touch hard. I struggle with body language, don't like strangers touching me, and am very paranoid of crossing boundaries.
But, I really like touch, and feel a lot of starvation. Because of the above, even with overtly/openly affectionate people i feel extremely paranoid, and default to keeping distance.
Things that really help: Clear permission ("You can sit with me", "we can snuggle", etc.), or taking the lead if you know me well.
Thanks. ๐
Happy Birthday to @rezzish , a very special dragon who deserves lots of love and affection โค๏ธ
Goose game cosplay, karaoke, YouTube link
Dressed as the little boy from Untitled Goose Game and sung Juice by Lizzo and replaced all instances of the word Juice with Goose.
Won the costume contest.
Dating, poly, melancholy
Guy contacted me half an hour before I left work yesterday to say he forgot an important family event was the same time as our date. Was apologetic and said we'll have to reschedule, but has not gotten back to me yet on that front.
I feel kind of silly for getting kinda melancholy over this considering I've only known him for less than a week, but I'm starting to think I really like him and really want to see him again. Worried about coming on too strong though.
She/Her/They/Them. Black Cat Furry. Poly. Aspiring Furry Artist. Actually a huge dork.