PSA for friends: Personal boundaries, touch
I find touch hard. I struggle with body language, don't like strangers touching me, and am very paranoid of crossing boundaries.
But, I really like touch, and feel a lot of starvation. Because of the above, even with overtly/openly affectionate people i feel extremely paranoid, and default to keeping distance.
Things that really help: Clear permission ("You can sit with me", "we can snuggle", etc.), or taking the lead if you know me well.
Thanks. ๐
Happy Birthday to @rezzish , a very special dragon who deserves lots of love and affection โค๏ธ
Goose game cosplay, karaoke, YouTube link
Dressed as the little boy from Untitled Goose Game and sung Juice by Lizzo and replaced all instances of the word Juice with Goose.
Won the costume contest.
She/Her/They/Them. Black Cat Furry. Poly. Aspiring Furry Artist. Actually a huge dork.