Guy contacted me half an hour before I left work yesterday to say he forgot an important family event was the same time as our date. Was apologetic and said we'll have to reschedule, but has not gotten back to me yet on that front.

I feel kind of silly for getting kinda melancholy over this considering I've only known him for less than a week, but I'm starting to think I really like him and really want to see him again. Worried about coming on too strong though.

**Purranda the Black Cat** · Nov 04, 2019, 00:58

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**mixed berry social anxiety disorder 🍓** @monorail@glaceon.social · Nov 04, 2019, 00:58

Nov 04, 2019, 00:58

mixed berry social anxiety disorder 🍓 @monorail@glaceon.social

"ok boomer"

[a nearby boomer goes into listening mode, broadcasting my speech directly to google inc]

**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 04:10

**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 04:10

Nov 02, 2019, 04:10

Purranda the Black Cat @Purranda@computerfairi.es

Poly and Dating, Happy

Woo! Long story short I've got a date on Sunday and we're gonna take things slow. I might just end up with a friend, but I'm definitely open to this. We're bonding over art and mutual awkwardness.

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**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 02:37

**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 02:37

Nov 02, 2019, 02:37

Purranda the Black Cat @Purranda@computerfairi.es

Poly and Dating, Advice plz

just told him.

"Okay deeeeep breaths lemme see if I can say this without sounding nuts. I know this isn't officially a "date" but I wanted to put my cards on the table and say that I'm married and polyamorous, but I really think you're cute and charming and I want to get to know you if you'd let me?

I understand if that's a deal breaker or if you don't want to meet, but as they say... nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?"

....... he's been typing and deleting

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**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 02:16

**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 02:16

Nov 02, 2019, 02:16

Purranda the Black Cat @Purranda@computerfairi.es

Poly and Dating, Advice plz

So we're meeting for dessert and coffee Sunday evening. I don't know if he's considering it a "date" and I haven't told him about being poly or being married and ahhhh how do I bring it up???

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**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 02:01

**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 02:01

Nov 02, 2019, 02:01

Purranda the Black Cat @Purranda@computerfairi.es

caps, relationships, flirting, poly ment.

omg omg omG OMG??? HE SAID YES????

Hammering out a potential meeting place. Ahhh omg he thinks I'm pretty cool too.

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**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 00:21

**Purranda the Black Cat** @Purranda@computerfairi.es · Nov 02, 2019, 00:21

Nov 02, 2019, 00:21

Purranda the Black Cat @Purranda@computerfairi.es

caps, relationships, flirting, poly ment.

oh my god there was this really cute guy that had lots of Julian Devorak energy at the bar I went to last night and I got his instagram and friended him on fb today and just asked him if he'd like to get coffee.

WHAT IS MY LIFE???

This is pretty out of character for me but I think he's really cute and I wanna give it a try? I don't even really know where we'd go from here and how I'd explain I'm poly and ahhhhhhhhhhhh.

**Purranda the Black Cat** · Oct 31, 2019, 23:35

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**Gwyn 😈** @lunalapin@slime.global · Oct 31, 2019, 23:35

Oct 31, 2019, 23:35

Gwyn 😈 @lunalapin@slime.global

When Aphrodite whaps her baps out everyone is like "wow a goddess" and "I'm going to carve you out of marble" but when i do it I'm "causing a scene in the book store"