@witchfynder_finder There was so much toxicity in my life before I realized this. Someone would tell me "but this thing you love has [problems]" and, being the angy teen that I was, I thought that the only responses were to either stop enjoying the thing or double down and pretend that the problems don't matter.
@witchfynder_finder related statement: there's a lot of overlap between the idea of "I'm not allowed to enjoy things with flaws because then I'm not being critical" and cringe culture. It's the same sickly feeling of enjoying something that you're "not supposed to"
@RowanBerry Yeah we have this tendency to internalize "Thing you like has Problem" as "YOU has Problem" as well which also wraps up into this whole thing
It turns out some things are complicated =P