i said "look who the cat dragged in" to my friend before when he appearead unexpectedly and only now I learned that the saying is actually ironic and a bit unwelcoming.
i feel like a piece of shit.
@tillianisafox
If your friend is offended by it, he/she should say something. If I said that to one of my friends, we'd both laugh about it.
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