I don't know if this belongs here or not - it was my cheat project. When we bought our current house we needed a buffet for this niche in the dining room, but couldn't find anything we liked and fit and could afford. So I cheated. 3 custom kitchen cabinets screwed together, and I built the top and base out of a matching maple. I thought it would do until we found something. That was 20 years ago.
#woodwork #furniture
At the time I got married, 13 years ago, I lived in a flat. I liked it cos it was a short walk from the train station. Good for getting home after late nights out.
My wife moved in. One day she said, "The only problem with this flat is that it's a long walk from the station."
Long?
Turns out it's short if you go thru the woods & by the dark underpass, a route a woman would never think of taking.
And that was my 1st lesson in how we inhabit the same space but live in different worlds.
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Via Kyle Griffin:
The #LGBTQ youth suicide prevention and crisis intervention group The Trevor Project said in a statement it had "an approximately a 125% increase in crisis contact volume" on Election Day through Wednesday morning compared to typical days.
Jan. 6 Officer Nearly Crushed To Death Predicts 'A Cold January'
βPeople voted for someone who would see them never vote again,β Washington Metropolitan Police Officer Daniel Hodges told HuffPost
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/jan-6-officer-reaction-trump-2024-election_n_672bdc2ae4b01cfbdad3ac52
Had to get outside today. Found myself at a park, where I felt compelled to defend an immigrant familyβs right to be there.
I must admit, it took me a few minutes to speak up. I was initially reluctant to do soβI am not young. I am not in good health. I am not of large frame. And the young men were not nice.
So, I gathered my thoughts & my courage & then, said what I said. Something disarming & then, something more pointed. I ended up babbling something about the gift of this beautiful sun shiny day & was relieved when they turned & walked away.
The father shared his appreciation for my βkind manner.β Said his wife had wanted to leave but when he heard me, he said to her, βSee. See, there are still kind people here.β We continued to talk for a bit and they were so lovely. I am happy to have meet them & their beautiful children. I am happy I found the courage to say *something.*
Still, I cried all the way home.
We have to stand up for each other now.
re: US Politics
@ScottSoCal My main feeling is anger. Yet I am forging ahead like nothing happened. Almost. If I donβt try to keep swimming Iβll sink. Maybe Iβll be hot differently and in a worse way later. But I literally told my husband to cheer up. I am so insensitive atm. Maybe itβs because I am having to block my feelings. Or maybe I processed this before it happened because itβs what I feared. I donβt know what to think. And Iβm so sorry youβre feeling so bad. I totally agree with you. We are probably after Russia one of the most corrupt nations on earth. I think I already realized that a while back. I fear for people who are younger than me. How could people do this to them. How could parents not vote. I am very angry.
Being out, proud, and obnoxiously nonbinary is immensely important right now.
Hateful people want to scare us into hiding and invisibility, and some of us will have to comply.
So be out for those who can't. Remind the world that nonbinary people exist. Make it clear that our enemies are taking rights away from real people.
We are here to stay.
re: US Politics
3/3
And my team couldn't be bothered to stop them - knowing that all this was on the table. Harris wasn't exciting enough, or pure enough, or lacked some ineffable quality that makes it worth their time to get off their collective asses and vote.
I'm ashamed. Of my country, and a sizeable chunk of the people in it. And I'm very angry.
re: US Politics
2/3
They voted for their own wives and daughters to bleed out and die, or be rendered permanently sterile if their pregnancy doesn't go to plan, and the worst happens. They voted for this country to secede from the rest of the globe and pretend it doesn't exist. They voted for Russia to go unchecked and leave the countries of Europe to deal with it as best they can.
US Politics
1/3
I've been sitting here processing all day. Working through this last 24 hours.
The majority in my country voted for an unhinged megalomaniac who has sworn to lock up his opponents and silence his critics. They voted for children to be stripped away from their parents for the crime of seeking safety. They voted for economic chaos. They voted for Palestinians and Ukrainians to be slaughtered. They voted for the Constitution to be overturned.
I just had my UPS driver come to my office to pick up stuff we need to send out to clients. He immediately begins talking about how great it's going to be to have Trump back in office.
"Now we have freedom of speech again. We can say the "N" word again! (a little pause) and then he says "Notorious!" and begins laughing. "Yeah, the Notorious Trump is going to fix things. You'll have more money in your pocket. Interest rates will go down. We'll help Israel and he's gonna end the war in Ukraine."
So I immediately start going after him. In answering back he had no logic or reason when I pressed him on why he supported the issues he was talking about.
He is indicative of every uneducated, moronic, parroting Trump supporter. No idea why he supports the issues he does other than he's told that's what to support. And supports that guy because it allows his racism to show. In the three minutes he was here he showed how he and others like him are racist, transphobic, misogynistic, lack consistency in their morals/positions and in general just fucking ignorant.
I don't use the word "hate" lightly... but I hate people like that. And I really fucking hate that more than half my fellow citizens voted that piece of shit into office and further emboldened racist guys like my delivery driver to think they can do and say whatever they want.
@GottaLaff I'd be quite surprised if there's a Next Election.
8/ I hope this clarifies, because itβs way better than what I tried to write:
After today, I'm going to start judging people who are still active on Twitter much harsher.
I'm sorry folks, but at this point everyone knows what it is. Musk is Goebbels, and Twitter is his megaphone. Him purchasing the site is a not small part of the foundation of what happened today, it's not a small part of the root of the bad things that are going to happen in the next few years.
I'm not buying any excuse anymore: being active in there makes one of the main tools of the fascists more effective. I know it. You know it. If you are there, please, close your account today.
Someone said βgood morningβ to me at the bus stop and before thinking about it I said βno itβs not. It is objectively *not* a good morning.β
I regretted this instantly all the bus stop regulars already think Iβm a strange little nerd. Now they will think (know?) Iβm a weirdly politically obsessed strange little nerd.
But instead of the look π of disapproval, hilariously everyone agreed.
βBad morning!β
βBAD morning!β
#Goodmorning π₯
what gruesome news to wake up to... π₯Ίπ£
My heart goes out to all my fellow ND in the US rn πππ
...and to the women, LGBTQI, BLM and all the others whose lives will be affected by this.
A tiny part of me still hopes for the still uncounted early ballots but if there will miraculously be a turnaround, it's going to be way too close...
I feel so helpless, there is nothing I can do.
I can only be.
So, I'll be. Here. ππ«π₯
USpol - how to get a passport
If you need to get a passport in the US, look here
https://www.usa.gov/passport
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.