Realizing I'm autistic explained something about me to myself. I'm a huge Trekkie, but my favorite characters were Seven of Nine and The Doctor.
Two people trying to figure out how to human, and not quite getting it. Just like me.
After 20 years at my current job - and 20 years of evaluations that say I'm wonderful, but need to work on my communication and social skills - they've come around. I told them flat out, if you interrupt me I'll be brusque, even rude. Schedule a meeting, let me know what it's about so I can prepare, and I'll talk your ears off. Don't spring things on me.
It worked.
I used to describe myself as a hard-core introvert, but I realized in my case what's exhausting is the constant masking I'm doing, not the socializing. I love being around the (tiny, tiny number) of people I don't mask with, and it's not draining.
"Also you don't need to tell me if you're not interested π"
But then how would you know?
π
Today's sharp jump looks like a "buy a block of stock today to push up the price"
The ongoing fall is ongoing.
When women forgo paid labor as a Tradwife or Stay-at-home Girlfriend (SAHG), they take a huge economic risk. Financial dependence=loss of power & control. And in reality few couples can afford it. 78% of US millennials are dual-career couples. https://www.cnbc.com/2024/04/24/the-rise-of-the-tradwife-and-sahg-why-some-women-opt-out-of-work.html
@Porpentina2017 If Obama had stolen classified documents, stuck them in the bathroom, and refused to give them back, Republicans would be demanding the death penalty. No exaggeration: they would literally call it treason and unquestionably demand his execution.
Now then, where's that note from the missus reminding me to do something or other?
#cats #obscurity #perfection
Slava Ukraine
Whether you like Israel or not, there is no way, US politicians would come together and deliver this package without aid to Israel, simply because Israel is a strategically important ally.
What really matters is, Ukraine is getting an enormous allocation of resources now, on top of all the aid already provided from the UK, Norway Japan, and EU countries.
Russia has not been able to take Ukraine during the 6 months delay, and now really powerful weapons are coming to help Ukraine win.
2/2
Since I bought an EV, my gas credit card has been sending me "We miss you" e-mails.
I met him, decades ago, at a tech conference. I wasn't impressed.
Holy crap.
As someone else who came out of the Midwest, I hope I meet Marc Andreessen someday so I can personally invite him to eat a family-size bag of Flamin' Hot-flavor dicks
https://prospect.org/power/2024-04-24-my-dinner-with-andreessen/
#Paleontologists Unravel Secrets of Enigmatic 33-Foot Prehistoric #Shark After #Fossil Discovery
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/paleontologists-unravel-secrets-of-enigmatic-33-foot-prehistoric-shark-after-fossil-discovery-180984218/
Exceptionally preserved shark #fossils from #Mexico elucidate the long-standing enigma of the #Cretaceous elasmobranch Ptychodus https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2024.0262
"#Ptychodus has long been a classic example of teeth in search of a body... Now, they report it was likely a close relative of todayβs great white sharks and crunched on hard-shelled creatures with unique grinding teeth"
Farts smelling of rancid hamberder grease.
So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.