He had a meltdown. First the car, then the charger, and now I'm pushing him to get the rate information. Why didn't I involve him in any of this?
Because he agonizes, and can't make a decision. He drags it out until forced into a decision by timing, and then he grumbles about it when he makes the decision I knew he was going to make all along. Let's skip all that and just get to the end.
Hubs is not happy. But he likes the car I bought him.
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@jeanoappleseed @actuallyautistic
Surprising hubs is an astoundingly difficult thing to do, but this did. Despite me telling him we need to get him into an EV before me (my car gets 10+ higher mpg than his) and that I'd gotten pre-approved for financing with a 30 day deadline to buy, and that we were looking at cars for him. When I actually did it, he was surprised. I saw the car, the price, model, color all worked, and I did it. Much to his displeasure.
@ScottSoCal @actuallyautistic I totally get where heβs coming from. Iβve improved in my decision-making but still donβt like surprises or not being informed nor consulted. I get upset at receiving gifts from HB which are things Iβve always wanted or would if I knew they existed. My HB is great at guessing things I will love. But I still donβt like surprises or not being consulted. Itβs complicated π