The vibes got extremely fucked this afternoon so I put on a nice outfit and went outside to the parking lot BBQ the other tenants were hosting, had a beer, and was generally visible as a #trans woman around a bunch of 60- and 70-year old snowbirds. Everyone was very cool and I looked good as fuck. Any time I am wearing Wolford tights I feel so good I could jump-kick the damn sun.
Turns out the group that gathers for these events all specifically work to keep racism, homophobia and transphobia out. That was a pretty amazing thing to learn after the fact.