So, back when dabbing first became a thing, I would do it ironically. However, eventually, it became so natural to me that it became part of my normal body language. Similarly, using words like yeet or owo. Started ironically, but now they a part of my normal vocab. So when you're "ironically" racist/sexist/whatever, I worry about how long before it becomes a part of your normal thought processes, if it's not already.